What many nice guys think of as simply being nice to a woman is actually a way of manipulating a woman. Since most guys kiss use this common type of technique to manipulate woman, your "being nice" isnt going to help when it comes to attracting women. When a "nice guys" meets a woman who he is attracted to, giving her lots of compliments and buying her things, to him is considered the right thing to do because it's nice, and he treats all his women nice. Yet, this same nice guy doesn't pay compliments or buy things for the women he has no attraction to. Therein is the problem: Nice guys aren't really being nice when they pay women compliments IF they only give them to women they find attractive.Nice guys aren't really being nice when they buy women drinks and take them out to dinners and movies IF they only buy them for women they find attractive. What "nice guys" are doing when they only treat women who they find attractive like this, is attempting to manipulate these women into liking them by doing these nice things.Now, if you are a nice guy who doesn't mind manipulating women into finding you attractive, feel free to continue manipulating women using the "nice guy" technique. However, the "nice guy" technique in general only works on women who already like you a lot. There are many other techniques to attract women that not only work better than the "nice guy" technique they also cost you a whole lot less in the long run as well. Yet if you are a nice guy who finds the manipulation of women to be wrong, you can continue to use the "nice guy" technique IF you also use it on everyone you meet. Begin by paying compliments and buying dinners and movies to women you do not find attractive and have no interest in dating; then when you meet a woman with whom you do find attractive using the "nice guy" technique will not be considered manipulative because you do it for everyone. Of course if being a "nice guy" to everyone seems out of the question you can stop using it all together and not manipulate women at all. |
